Good question. I started Al Anon to work hard on detaching with love. I think back and didnt do it as well as i do it now. Now i have members i can call to remind me what it looks like. At the time, i only had the forum.

I love this forum but i needed more.

M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017