Thank you seeker. I try to call someone from program once the thoughts of controlling his decision get in my head.

What im obsessing about today is that im angry hes going to put our kids through this. Im thinking of having them start attending a preteen mtg for 4-11yo. Their fathers behavior is like that of an addict. I dont want them to believe his behavior is their fault.

God help us.


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017