Gordie: Pulling it all together

[Gordie]

***Gordie, your post on 1/13/17 says your W recognizes that the POM may not reciprocate. If that's correct, if that's a steadily held point of view by your W, then she's not delusional. She has an intense infatuation w/ the POM, but realizes that it's one-sided. That's a healthier place to be.***

Yes, I think this is where she is.

***Or does she sometimes slip into thinking that he loves her back? And/or that he's actually done certain things to demonstrate his feelings for her?***

According to her, she believes that he loves her back, but she hasn't actually asked him point blank, so doesn't know for sure.