The affair op, most will eventually regret this decision.  In the heat of the moment, appears to make sense.  It feels good and sometimes even feels right.  Feelings are deceitful.  Soon afterward, ther eyes will be opened and they will regret that they ever partook of the forbidden fruit.   Don’t we all have enough regrets in our lives?   Why add another one – particularly one that can only destroy everything they have worked so hard to build?  ther home may not be perfect but it sure beats living in a tent.

Me 56 w52
M30 years
4x adult kids
W dad died/11
W wanted d 03/12
In-house sep 03/12
D 2014 I pushed
W Left on 02/16 I pushed
Pa on 07/16
Nc after 07/16
W Cakeating 15to16
Me doormat 12to16
Limbo 12to16