Originally Posted By: SBJ
VENTING...Why is it that we can pray for them and their well being, yet still get so frustrated. I have faith that God will take care of what we are going thru, but I question what it is that I am suppose to learn during this trial.

I know that I don't have any control over her, but I guess I am simply hoping that God opens her eyes before we actually have to go thru with the divorce. It is something that I am totally morally against, but again...It takes two to make a M work.



SBJ

Here is the problem ... the root of your frustration. God will work on these things on His timeline, not yours. His Will, not yours. His plan ... again, not yours.

Its very hard to keep this in mind in the eye of the storm. I will simply tell you what I learned from all 'this'. I would have NEVER made the changes had He stepped in and fixed it all on my timeline according to my plan. The lessons I still pray that I have learned by now, maybe I have, maybe there is more to learn ..... maybe its her who needs to learn a few choice lessons as well. Honestly I try to remain open every day for a sign, guidance and wisdom to learn what it is He is trying to teach me. There are alot of things at play here, you need to have faith in His plan and let go of your own plan for all this.


M: 48
W: 47
M16 T26-S8
BD Sept13