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Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa FightOn #2727373 01/26/17 11:29 AM
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Sotto Member S Joined: Oct 2014 Posts: 5,301	Hi, interesting reading - and ... is also recommended in this area... When I read what you post I think - he will decide to change or he will not and that's up to him. The part to focus on for you is your own sense of self and your own boundaries and what's okay for you. I read once that it can always be helpful to give the option to say no - ie: suggest doing X, but let him know he can tell you if that doesn't work for him. Equally you can let him know - pleasantly - if something doesn't work for you. Modelling the desired behaviour may also be an option - and a chance for you to practice those skills. And if he is/has behaved in a PA way, perhaps you could pleasantly say - 'you're always welcome to let me know if there's something you need' - or similar... So - in essence - good to educate yourself and change yourself. How you approach an interaction affects the dynamic regardless of whether he chooses to change. Last edited by Cristy; 08/07/17 06:57 AM. Reason: As stated in our OnLine Community Board Rules, we do not allow recommendations of non-DivorceBusting books / websites / blogs etc T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed) We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus

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How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	09/28/16 10:23 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	job	09/28/16 10:42 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	job	09/28/16 10:49 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	MrBond	09/28/16 10:59 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	09/28/16 12:35 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	job	09/28/16 12:50 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	09/28/16 12:57 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	job	09/28/16 01:12 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	09/28/16 02:50 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	job	09/28/16 04:32 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	Esame	09/28/16 11:20 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	Cadet	09/28/16 11:37 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	cat04	09/29/16 06:29 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	TLE	09/29/16 05:31 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	09/30/16 02:08 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	job	09/30/16 02:18 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	Cristy	10/03/16 01:11 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	10/04/16 02:14 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	10/04/16 02:51 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	job	10/05/16 04:39 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	tfish08	10/05/16 10:58 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	10/07/16 12:01 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	AmyTx	10/07/16 12:22 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	tfish08	10/07/16 12:41 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	ciluzen	10/07/16 01:05 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	CaliGuy	10/07/16 01:21 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	Jer2911	10/07/16 04:24 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	10/11/16 11:25 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	10/17/16 10:26 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	job	10/17/16 10:54 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	10/21/16 08:25 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	MrBond	10/22/16 02:20 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	Cadet	10/22/16 05:26 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	job	10/22/16 06:38 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	10/24/16 08:18 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	10/26/16 02:59 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	MrBond	10/26/16 03:11 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	peacetoday	10/26/16 03:23 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	10/31/16 12:02 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	job	10/31/16 01:45 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	10/31/16 02:21 PM
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Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	10/31/16 08:46 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	job	11/01/16 06:32 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	peacetoday	11/01/16 07:30 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	11/14/16 02:56 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	job	11/14/16 03:03 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	ciluzen	11/14/16 04:46 PM
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Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	11/28/16 03:51 PM
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Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	Pax_luv	12/06/16 12:37 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	job	12/06/16 06:03 AM
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Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	12/08/16 01:05 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	CaliGuy	12/08/16 01:48 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	AndrewP	12/08/16 02:19 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	12/09/16 12:37 PM
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Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	CaliGuy	12/09/16 02:09 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	12/12/16 02:32 PM
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Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	CaliGuy	12/14/16 11:52 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	job	12/14/16 12:23 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	AndrewP	12/14/16 01:38 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	peacetoday	12/14/16 04:32 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	12/15/16 10:29 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	AndrewP	12/15/16 12:08 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	12/19/16 10:38 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	job	12/19/16 11:43 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	AndrewP	12/19/16 01:17 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	12/20/16 12:13 PM
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Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	Coly23	10/01/16 04:12 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	10/03/16 10:32 AM
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Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	01/03/17 11:33 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	01/11/17 12:58 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	AndrewP	01/11/17 02:34 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	01/11/17 02:53 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	01/18/17 11:28 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	job	01/18/17 12:07 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	01/18/17 04:33 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	AndrewP	01/18/17 05:13 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	job	01/19/17 12:05 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	01/26/17 10:26 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	Sotto	01/26/17 11:29 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	job	01/26/17 12:43 PM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	01/27/17 11:09 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	FightOn	01/27/17 11:10 AM
Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	job	01/27/17 11:20 AM
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Re: How Do We Know If Its MLC or If They Are Really Sa	job	09/28/16 12:11 PM

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