Still leaning towards ending things, but we do need to have that talk sometime this weekend I suppose.
In my mind, talk is cheap.
I think rather than 'making a decision', you should clearly lay out what you need out of a relationship. I think with a 20 year history, you owe it a few months to see if she backs up her words. Sure, there will be bumps along the way, but Id clearly state your boundaries and let her take them or leave them.
