My WW and the Great Sandi2 Experiment - part 2

[Gordie]

I agree with Rose and Kaizen. And remember you can only control you. When I have a discussion I'm not happen with, I replay it with how I'd like it to go next time. Example:

W: Hey, I just want you to know I'm planning a five day trip to Florida in March and want you to watch the kids.

Chris: That sounds fun. What are the details? I'll make sure to take the time off of work.

If this is a normal conversation, then W will then tell you the dates/who is going/where they are staying, etc.

If it feels feels weird, then it is because you think she is hiding something and/or lying. That's a different issue, not the trip.