Twilight Zone is exactly it...

I'm not planning on asking the question. We did the Christmas thing for each other, spent a reasonable amount.

Doing Valentines says we are in R. If she is still contacting OM at that point, then [cesnored] Valentines.

Ask me in 3 weeks how I got on...

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Me: 47 WW: 35
SS: 17 D: 5
T: 7 yrs Engaged: 2 yrs
OEA confirmed: August 17 2016 ongoing since April 2016.
OEA continues (with occasional breaks)
BD2 - W says will visit OM in Jan 18