I believe 100% she wants to get back together and really means it. The problem is I do not think she would feel the same way a few years down the road. I always feel like she has one foot out the door.
How can you feel 100% that she wants to get together and mean it, yet believe its like she has one foot out the door? It has to either/or. If you truly believe, then don't worry about the future and take one day at a time. That's all you can do. Just as we can't live in the past, we can't live in the future on what might happen. One day at a time, my friend.
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She never seemed excited about our wedding, never would seriously discuss children and always kind of supported my former brother in law when he and my sister broke up. Most people on my sisters side didn't talk to him anymore because that's just the way it goes. My W always said it wasn't right. I felt like she was doing that because she knew the day would come for us and she did not want to be treated like that.
I'm separating this part because it deserves its own attention. Those aren't behaviors of someone who wants to be married.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.