I would love for POM or POM GF to burst her bubble but I don't want to be the catalyst.
That's a very good point you're making, not wanting to be the catalyst. I can respect that.
In my case I just felt I had to do it. It's hard for me to find words to articulate why. It was a gut feeling. Felt degrading to me, to my W, to my family for the delusion to continue. It felt like a matter of mental health, not a marital problem. But in my case I had zero doubt it was delusional.
About the 15 months -- yes, I understand nobody can tell us how long MLC will last, even if there is a rule-of-thumb or some type of a statistical average.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final
