Yay! I read your first post. Im so glad youre here giving advice. So few veterans return.

I never returned bcuz reading the posts brought back all the memories.

Ive learned there are worse things in life. I learned to thank God for every single gift when i was feeling down. I learned to screw the shoulda woulda couldas. I didnt know any better. Im learning to love myself.

I have recovered really well from my sitch. Unfortunately SO didnt.

He is in God's hands.

How are you dealing w resentment. It took me 2yrs after reconciling to feel in love. It couldve come back sooner if i had worked on it right away but i wanted to keep it. As if to punish him. All it did was hurt me.

XOXO


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017