Yay! I read your first post. Im so glad youre here giving advice. So few veterans return.
I never returned bcuz reading the posts brought back all the memories.
Ive learned there are worse things in life. I learned to thank God for every single gift when i was feeling down. I learned to screw the shoulda woulda couldas. I didnt know any better. Im learning to love myself.
I have recovered really well from my sitch. Unfortunately SO didnt.
He is in God's hands.
How are you dealing w resentment. It took me 2yrs after reconciling to feel in love. It couldve come back sooner if i had worked on it right away but i wanted to keep it. As if to punish him. All it did was hurt me.
XOXO
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017