When we reconciled I thought I had seen the changes i wanted to see.
He believed that if he ever felt depressed again, we would talk about it.
The problem is, he never had the tools to work through it. It wasnt my responsibility to provide him with these tools. I worked my program and it helped me. He chose not to do anything.
It just happened.
Yes, its sad. It will be devastating for me when we need to tell our kids.
I did learn something about myself. I dont want an unbalanced relationship. I want one free of drama.
M 42 H 39 T10 (-2yrs separation) S8 D5 DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA) Reconciled 6/2013 Separation in works 1/2017
