Long time lurker

[Hazy]

I try not to, But unfortunately we still do at times. It's usually about the kids. Parenting differences. Sometimes it's about finances or just things I may or may not be doing that he doesn't agree with. They are not like they used to be when he decided to leave but it's still present sometimes. The problem is I don't see it as arguing but as disagreements about things and he sees it as stress. Of course he's not going to have these arguments with others because they don't have the same connections we have. It's aggravating.