I feel I need to add, during all of this I have never expressed that I want to work on our marriage. He never asked. This came on so quickly that we went from a decent MR to not speaking overnight.

After his previous EA's I've told him that I will not fight for him. If he ever decided the grass was greener he could have at it. Guess he took me at my word.

We have always had a relationship where we talked openly with no filter so very often feelings were hurt. Usually mine. But I no longer feel I can talk to him or tell him I'd like to work on this.

M:41 H:43
T:26yrs M:19 yrs
S:15 D1:14 D2:9
Living together but separated