Originally Posted By: Gordie
W getting upset about reality not matching fantasy is a good thing. It's made her more not less rational. But it only sunk in because I was not the messenger.

So ... if POM and/or his girlfriend delivered the news to your W ... it might be a good thing?

skyhigh thought strategic exposure was good for getting her MLC hub out of his MLC....

No pressure (as if I can pressure you in the first place!) Just worth considering.


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final