W getting upset about reality not matching fantasy is a good thing. It's made her more not less rational. But it only sunk in because I was not the messenger.
So ... if POM and/or his girlfriend delivered the news to your W ... it might be a good thing?
skyhigh thought strategic exposure was good for getting her MLC hub out of his MLC....
No pressure (as if I can pressure you in the first place!) Just worth considering.
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final