I don't know how you do it. If there is a PA ... and your W is out w/ an OM ...

I know people reconcile after affairs. I'd like to be able to do that, and I think I can too. I just can't be there in any proximity, to witness any of that behavior while it's happening.

Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final