Does your W have a history of making impulsive, or emotion-based choices? Has she had difficulty exploring complex situations and their outcomes in her mind, or does she need to jump into things to understand?
My pre-MLC W was conservative and not compulsive at all; now she says that type of thinking is bondage. The MLC W thinks impulsive, emotion-based choices = following your heart = the path to happiness. Is there a happy, middle ground between the two?
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving