Gordie: Pulling it all together

[Gordie]

Or... she'll realize he has zero interest in her and she only fantasized it?

Have you learned any more about the POM that makes you think he is indeed more than a delusion?

No, I have not. I decided two months ago that discussing POM was not doing any good, so we haven't discussed him. The only time W brought up POM was when we were discussing alimony and that her L informed her that I would be free of alimony obligations if she cohabitates or remarries. This reality upset her fantasy greatly as she cannot have a serious cohabitating/marriage relationship with POM and her current lifestyle.