Mine must be in that 30% then, cause there isn't a chance in Hades of that ever happening. She's done. Funny thing is, I most likely would have said lets give it a whirl again.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
Vacations after divorce. As I have mentioned before, there is a place that we used to go every Veteran's Day. I'd like to go back in the next couple of years with the kids as it is one of our favorites (my absolute favorite). The thing is, it would be strange without the ex being there, as we went ever since we were dating. I'm not sure how it would affect me. The kids, it won't, but me, well I'm not sure.
Have any of you ever done that? Does it bring back memories?
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
Everything will bring back memories for the rest of your life. It is more important how emotionally detached you are. If you get to a point that little things are not bothering you like they use to then move on the the big things.
Love is a decision. Genuine love is honor put into action, regardless of the cost.
Me:43 W:41 M:21 SS:25 S:19 D:18 BD1:3/16 BD2:10/16 W moves out 10/2/16
Everything will bring back memories for the rest of your life. It is more important how emotionally detached you are. If you get to a point that little things are not bothering you like they use to then move on the the big things.
True, true. I'm past the point where little things don't set me off any more. I'd like to say that I'm OK to ride off into the sunset and be done with her. Maybe I am. But I have found that I no longer linger anymore.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
I'd like to believe given enough time the memories won't haunt us anymore
You know, for the longest time the memories would haunt me to no end. And it would be the little things that set it off. I'd like to say that my journey through the forest and subsequent exit has allowed that ghost to leave. In some aspect, it has. But, the ghost will always be there I believe.
I hope that I can do another vacation back there. I'm going to be honest, I took the kids on a mini-vacation at the end of summer - sort of a back to school thing. Just us. We stayed in a hotel, went to the zoo, and then drove a bit to our favorite aircraft carrier. We had a good, no make that great, time. It was odd without the ex, but I didn't miss her not being there. The kids didn't really talk about her, either...just a little here and there.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
I agree, life is fluid...but with the occasional rock in the way. I'd like to think it would be a better visit. Maybe it will, who knows.
This whole thing just stinks.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
