Newbie Thread 6

[hawker]

I haven't posted in awhile since there isn't a lot to report. The stbx started texting from the gym on Monday (we had off)since SOW wasn't with her. She was talking about the football games and how lifting was hard to get back into after taking off for her back surgery.

I did reply and said yes it took me awhile to get back in it after taking time off and she was surprised I took some time off. I was like yes after all that had happened I needed to take a break. She said "sorry that is probably my fault". No sh#t. LOL

I wanted to say a few things before I went dark again since she has been trying to friend zone me. I guess she didn't like what I had to say since I haven't heard from her since.

She doesn't like to feel guilty and what I said maybe made her? Who knows, actually I am okay with not hearing from her, it makes it easier for me and I don't feel the up and down of emotions after talking with her.

I have avoided her at school as well. I still am continuing to stay busy, teaching a class 2 nights a week along with my regular job and volunteering at the dog rescue and golf course.