I'm guessing she didn't tell ur D since she's doing "this" whatever "this" is for D....your W is still in the selfish mode so why would she text you thanks, its all about her...she wants what she wants when she wants it...
That is my thoughts anyhow... :-)
Good luck on training for the 1/2...I did it once, it was a good experience but I don't think I ever would want to do another. HA
W:42 M:48 T:9 yrs M:1yr BD: Feb 2016 EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016 D: Feb 2017