seeing ex-wife in 3 days. need advice

[james17]

I am devastated. Ex wife called me to tell me that she is no longer going to go to school in california, where I have moved to to start my life over. She says she is staying in the north to go to school, she and her boyfriend are very much in love (after 3 weeks together) and will probably end up with him long term. She says we are just not compatible and i would be happier with someone else.

i know the advice from this forum is to detach and just focus on myself. I would like to try, but i am just so depressed. She's the love of my life, and it's hard for me to imagine my life without her. i feel like i'm dying inside.