I said I was sorry for not making her comfortable enough to come to me with her issues. She said it is the same issues. Her dad, miscarriages/pregnancy issues, and that she is not attracted to me (mind you have lost 35 lbs. since finding out). She says that she doesn't want to kiss me, or have sex. I told her honestly i don't either. She tries to say that they are just friends.
I told her because of the picture she sent they are not friends. That friends don't joke about trying to take each other to bed. She says she use to joke that way with an old friend of her. She says she texted him a couple of time when we first got married. I don't react. We stop talking.
Her phone dings, and she tries to make the joke that its one of the many boyfriends that I think she has. I respond that i figured as much. She acts like that hurt her and maybe it did.
This morning we have a funeral for her grandma
Me:33, WW:30 BD:12/14/16, EA no children Still together