Yes, well this is partly my fault. I really feel that it is important for me to interact with my kids every day (even it's only for an hour). My son and I have a regular schedule of reading together and I really look forward to it.
So on days when my W is supposed to be home alone with them, I come home just in time to see them before bed. The problem is that once bedtime is over it's about 9 o'clock and I'm exhausted from the day that started at 6am and includes 2 hours on the train. At that time of the night the only things still open are bars and Target! So lately I've just been retiring to my man cave and enjoying the fact that I can do whatever I want until bedtime.
I know it sounds like a lot of wah wah wah, and I suppose that I need to get over my fear of losing my connection with my kids simply because I'm not home for one night to see them.
I have almost the exact same schedule...and the same fear of losing connection with the kids without the daily before bed routine...am actually discussing daily visitation rights for our separation agreement to keep this going...
Atlantic city solo with hot tubs...watch out ladies! And a new tattoo? You have to change your screen name...to superman!
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving