Extract myself from being in a relationship rather than just saying it. Mentally leave the R. I haven't done this to date. Start looking at a life without her in it.
Struggling to do this myself...so will be looking for pointers from you...dang, this is hard, as MWD says, the hardest thing you've ever done in your life...
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving