I didn't say anything but felt like saying that isn't my problem.
It isn't your problem. It's his bed, let him clean it off.
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He then asked if I wanted to figure out schedules like every other weekend. I said we'll work it out, but in my head I was screaming No! These are my children! I spend every waking hour with them. I take them every where. I stay up with them when they are sick. My life with my kids cannot be reduced to this!
I know exactly how you feel. Exactly. I want every single minute with mine, too. I can't fathom how my ex is content with talking with them a few minutes a night and not asking to use her full allotted time. That's OK, though. It's becoming apparent in the children. And I hate that.
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Fully expecting some snooping to start on his end.
Don't be surprised if it already is.
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My tablet and phone are password protected so I'm not really worried about that. Trying to figure out where to hide my DR book and journal. Would put them in my gun safe which is also password protected, but since its next to my bed and he's there, that's not going to work. How do people lie and cheat? This is a lot of work and I'm not even doing anything wrong
Hey, I have one of those by my bed, too!
People lie and cheat when they don't care. Period. And, as some have said, it may even be part of the excitement. In my case, mine was so "in love" with him that was all she wanted, but she knew the consequences of getting caught before being divorced. Some seek the thrill, and some truly do not care. Either way, it's f***ed up beyond belief.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
