Originally Posted By: Seeker7
Boundaries are only good when you can control them respectfully. You can only control yourself.


I see. I was not able to do this, so let myself react in an uncontrolled, somewhat childish manner.

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There are five forms of apologies and each person responds different to each one.

You can find a better description of this on this thread.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2724890#Post2724890


Thanks Seeker. That is a good read. I think I need to apologise and acknowledge that I was trying to control what she was doing and my reaction was inappropriate.

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