The Fab 5 and Dad

[J5K]

Gordie, thank you for the support. I do what I can. I still feel so unorganized in my life right now. Still a lot of loose ends to clean up, but I can only do what I can each day.


Since the letter went out to XW last Friday, a lot less communication through text.

Monday I had a meeting with the boys teachers, social worker, and principal at the new school. I called XW to have her conference in. We gave the teachers history on the boys. XW started to make comments about the boys behavior and made it sound like they are struggling due to my actions. She threw in a couple of other jabs as to me not being a cooperative co-parent. I said nothing until after the discussion was done. When XW was off the phone I apologized to the teachers and gave them a bit of my perspective on things but did not say anything negative about XW, I just stated that I want the boys to excel as much as possible.

So no formal response back to the letter my L sent. Since I have to get my things out of storage though, I think it would be best to meet XW this weekend and have her visit with the boys even thought it should have been 2 weekends ago.

XW also sent me texts this week with respect to the furniture, asking if I wanted to buy the formal dining room and the piano. I said I would think about it. She stated that it will cost her 6K to move her things to Toronto. Ha! That is double the price of what she received quotes for from when we were going to move all the furniture. I validated and in the end she said well she will look at selling the items online, they are just things.

I think to myself, we paid thousands of dollars for that piano and now she wants to sell it instead of giving it to her kids. She wanted to have the boys learn piano and now she will sell it for pennies on the dollar.

Nothing but lies continue to come out of her mouth. She had the nerve to say she doesn't trust me going through the storage units and is concerned I will damage her things as I try to get mine out. I just cannot deal with her being so negative about me anymore. I may be the type of person that avoids conflict at times, but I am not a malicious person, if I wanted to damage her things that would have happened a long time ago when I had a lot of anger and resentment towards her.

I signed the boys up for AM care, still struggling to find an afterschool nanny though but not giving up. Lots to do in a short amount of time.