Well I came to the decision to leave it alone on mentioning anything. It will be perceived from her as a disrespectful judgement and will only harm more then it will do good. She does know it is wrong and no need to make it worse.

She did call today and asked a couple more questions on what was going on in my life. I did keep it short and to the point and got off the phone quickly in a nice manner.

The greatest gift we can give anyone in relationship is acceptance. Once we resolve to accept people for who they are and where they are, we are set free and so are they. We are free to affirm them, encourage them, and appreciate them, and by liberating ourselves we set them free to be who they are.


Love is a decision. Genuine love is honor put into action, regardless of the cost.

Me:43 W:41
M:21
SS:25 S:19 D:18
BD1:3/16 BD2:10/16
W moves out 10/2/16