So little bit more to add with the update from the other day.
I picked up S9 and after 4 days without seeing each other there is always a bit of catching up, wrestling, poking, wrestling and catching up while we settle back into the routine.
S9 wanted to ask a question ... was concerning him mother and the talk her and I had on the phone. I was like a deer in the headlight as I assumed she did this away from him prior to picking him up from school ... turns out he was in the other room but could hear most of her conversation, obviously heard his mother crying/hysterical so he was concerned and had questions.
I asked him specifically what he wanted to know ... and as per our agreement I did not lie to him and told him the truth ... I simply left out the suicide part but if he heard enough to ask the questions he did then he certainly heard that.
S9 did share as we talked that MLCr talked to her GF, then me, SIL, and then GF2 ...... no OM. Infact this whole past year no OM while she has had S9, nor has she talked to him on the phone in S's presence after I left and she talked to S9 about OM and S9 was open and honest that he did not like OM.
Nothing really changes for me... life continues as it has and I have found comfort and peace in the way I have gone about my life. Currently focused on paying off bills, expanding my business and just being better than I was yesterday.
Last edited by job; 01/25/1707:01 AM. Reason: Added spacing between paragraphs
