Oh man ... #2 is very serious. How bad is her drinking problem? One drink a night? Or a bottle of wine a night?

Also, what about your feelings for your wife? Are you ready to let her go? Do you feel it's the right thing?

Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final