I have a question for you about going dark: what is the objective? Do you think your W is gong to wake up from her fantasy relationship?
the goal as I understand it is to flip the distance/pursuit dynamic and then let the W feel any feelings that come up as a result.
In my opinion, 'going dark' is not 'the solution'. It isnt going to be the thing that causes you W to 'wake up'. In my opinion, going dark is to give you space to figure out what YOU want. To live YOUR life without the need to pursue her.
So, while youre dark, what are you doing that would make her interested if she WERE to pursue you?
I'm increasing my physical fitness. Beyond that I don't know. I just used the rest of the time to have some fun and give myself a breather.
I don't want to be to arrogant but I'm a fully committed family man and husband. If she doesn't want that then she just doesn't want me anymore. I'm not going to change my core desires just to see what happens with her reaction.
