I really think that unless she's still undecided, we need to start the processes asap, with the hope that we can amicably work out the financial and custody details, file the paperwork, and start working on the "disentanglement process" of our lives (primarily the process of me moving out).
That "unless shes still undecided" is very strange to me. What do you want? What are your goals? How does "starting the processes" help or hurt you to reach those goals?
