Tomorrow is the big day, I am praying for no surprises. We have only exchanged emails and have maintained pretty well as a separated couple the last 6 months. There is some resistance from her and I both as to the financials.
If you pray, please pray that we both get what is fair. We both contributed to our financials for 21 years. At times I think she is still in the fog and wanting me to leave with nothing, and charge me for the things I took. Sure I left and filed for D but she has been cheating on me for at least 10 years off and on with different guys, so in my mind she left a long time ago. I want her to have what she needs to raise our s13 when she has him 50% of the time, in return I pray that she gives me the same respect.
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M 21 years XW 43yo, me 41 yo S13 BD March 2016 - she asked me to patient... End of June - I started the D process. D final 2/23/17 "He who forgets will be destined to remember" Eddie Vedder
