Keep Wearing Wedding Band? [Thread #7]

[Gordie]

010207--my W fell in love with someone 10 years younger, someone w/ an alluring persona. It was a delusional EA, and she admits she's not quite over it yet.

I still don't know how our Ws can fall so deeply in love with people they don't really know...while feeling like they can't possibly stay married to the people they do really know...sigh...I alternate between extreme guilt that I must have been such a horrible H that my W felt so lonely and needy that W fell into this...and extreme betrayal/anger that my W is entertaining this selfish fantasy to the extent that she is willing to dispose of her self-professed best friend/great H/great father...argh...