My WW and the Great Sandi2 Experiment - part 2

[Chris73]

So I will be seeking advice from my DB coach as well as my IC with regard to the "sit down" that my W and I will be having on Friday night.

The way I feel right now, I'm planning on telling her that if she's ready to move forward with the divorce, I am too. She's told me several times that she wants to wait until the end of the school year to tell the kids, but I really think that unless she's still undecided, we need to start the processes asap, with the hope that we can amicably work out the financial and custody details, file the paperwork, and start working on the "disentanglement process" of our lives (primarily the process of me moving out).

But there are 3 days before this discussion is scheduled to happen. If there is another approach that any of you can suggest, I'm all ears!