It's always good to hear from you. Sad.......but good. I still think she will come to her right senses, but too late.
I'm glad you have a good relationship with your SS. Is it difficult to not talk about your W? BTW, does SS know the truth of why the M is on the rocks?
It's understandable that your momentum may change and that you would have to discipline yourself to go to the gym, etc. Do you feel as if you are living in limbo for one? ((Coconut))
Your need to post will probably decline a lot, and maybe you see no point in updating, or commenting on some newcomer's post. If you see it as a painful connection to your past, then do what is best for Coconut. Speaking only for myself, I will miss you very much, should you decide to fade away. Some of the smartest DBers I remember were eventually divorced, and yet it was their shared experiences and knowledge that was so valued by others looking for guidance. So, I hope I will see your posts from time to time.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
