Thanks OTW. I know it is hard for you to post and I appreciate the time. You do know my story the best out of anyone here.

I did follow the DB methods pretty well and they worked. I mean I am right where I wanted to be... made myself better in a number of ways and WW is begging to come back. If it was just felon it might be possible. But this new revelation about a guy from a few years ago is tough news to swallow. Changes everything really.

Walking away makes me so so sad. More sad than BD I think but deep down I am feeling it is the right thing to do. We could have had it. I really believe that. I feel bad picturing her life in the future, I really do. There is a great person in there.