We are at a stalemate as we have both suggested the other leave the MBR and both of us are still there.

Yes, my W dumps on me when reality intrudes on her fantasy. I suppose that I should anticipate this getting worse after S as she will have to face more reality.

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving