Gordie: Pulling it all together

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Gordie,

It's a messed up world out there. In modern days now, it is easy to get that quick high or thrill from almost anything a person wants to do.

I can tell you that since my separation and D, I still love my ex. I sense she is still angry and resents me for my actions. She is not willing to let go of the past because she still discusses the past with respect to the kids and how my actions have affected them.

I think every LBS will feel abandoned, betrayed, etc. If the WAS remarries, it's just another dip on the rollercoaster for the LBS. That is why it is key to create your own life and happiness. If they don't find you attractive because they cannot let go of the past, someone else will.