The rewording made the picture better for me. I agree with your responses to the other comments and advise. I am well aware of your situation and the road you traveled. I'm not sure people are aware of how well you followed the db methods.
It does seem you don't care either way of it will work with her or not. I also believed you have done everything you could to try.
Probably against all others opinions on here and may get flamed for it but it may be time to walk
I know you have come out the other side of this a better personw
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15