Thanks for sharing that Gordie. I like much of what your IC had to say.

Let me ask you something, though: once you separate or divorce, and your W is seeing someone, how are you going to feel inside? Can you feel close, and be intimate with her, while you know she's sleeping with someone else?

Not rhetorical questions. I'd like to hear how you feel about this.


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final