hello to everyone in the forums. im 40 and W is 27 . we had a sex deprived marriage due to many reasons most of it being me working long long hours. she finally called it quits 2 weeks ago. talking about all the negative things she could think of while we were married. how she felt lonely most of the time and she dont miss me anymore when i am gone, how i am snappy at her and short tempered. etc etc.
i totally wasnt expecting things to come to an actual divorce . to my defense i was working hard so we could buy a house and she knew this.
i am completely at loss. i talked to her many times to change her mind but she is set in stone.we are going to file for divorce this week and end it friendly.she is moving out.
my question is, i am ready to move on obviously and do the no contact thing. i do not think she would be coming back to me is what makes me sad.i feel like i had a good thing going but blew my chances by focusing too much on work not to my famuly.no kids by the way, we tried without success, during which her sister and cousin bot got kids and that also added to our pressure.
