BSB: There is some great advice here - don't worry I have none to give. Reading Zues126 thread was eyeopening. Many of us dream of getting a message as you have received. It's tough to be cool when you have something waved in front of you.

Be strong and stay cool.

You got this.

M:50
W:53
MR:20
D:21
S:17
S:11
BD-Sept 2015
Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015
Actually EA
In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016
W moved out:May 22 2016
OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017