It wasn't a speed bump, pre se, but more of what this family member of hers did. It didn't do anything more than stir some anger on my part. All I will say is that slandering on public forum is NOT awesome.
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I went out Saturday night and took my children out of state for a family party yesterday. I got all dressed up and made myself all perty. I felt good and knew I looked good! First time in years I've been able to say that. Until I saw pics afterwards and thought... hmmmm.... still need some work. lol Confidence issues anyone???
Good for you! I can dig getting dressed up and making oneself look perty (I like that). I know how you feel on the pics. I have never liked seeing mine even though somehow I got a photogenic tag. You don't need any work at all!
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H played it cool, but I could tell he wasn't pleased I had plans. Because I was going out? Because it meant he couldn't? who knows.
Don't read into it, and certainly don't give it a second thought.
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He's texting me mundane things today. I'm not responding but I'm wondering if that's the best course of action? Is he trying to just keep in touch - open a dialogue? By not responding am I hurting more than helping?
I wouldn't worry about it, after all, why? If he were interested, you'd know it. Maybe he's just doing a slight tug on the line to see if the hook is still in.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
