Good that you're focusing on yourself for now. That's the road to becoming a healthy, attractive individual and a partner.

Photos are always ... disappointing. Everyone feels like he doesn't look the way he wants to. Which is why there are professional photographers, who can make a person look good. I bet if you felt good, it showed to people around you.

He's texting you because ... who knows!!! He's confused. Don't try to mind read. It will make you go all over the place. I drive myself nuts (and into fear and depression) trying to mind read, work myself into a frenzy anticipating my W's next move.

Think of the texts like ... coming from a good friend. How would you respond, esp. if you are kind of busy today? Probably not respond to every single text, but a couple, in a warm way but ... stay brief.

My two cents.


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final