It's been a week now since she contacted me about meeting. I've held my ground even though I'm not sure I'm doing the right thing. She's now trying to turn this around on me. Telling her family that she wanted to meet and talk about trying to fix things but I won't agree to it. I'm meeting with my counselor this afternoon so maybe she will have some advice. Part of me wants to meet her but I NEED to know she is serious for the right reasons and not just sad/lonely. I guess that's why I want her to revoke the divorce papers before I agree to talk.