completely against the rules I said you don't need to come out here and hide what you're doing
I wouldn't say that's totally against the rules, although others may see it differently. You called him out on it, and in my book that's a good thing.
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I walked in on him getting dressed and had to walk back out. We've always had a really great sex life and I miss that so much. It's so painful not to be able to touch my H.
Same here. I'd walk into the room and she'd cover up. Then, I'd just turn and walk out as you as time passed. It is/was very painful, but also showed a corner being turned. You are doing well, my friend.
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A few minutes later he tells me how he opened up several new bank accounts at a different bank. Such a little thing but so different from his usual self and it felt like a slap in the face.
Several? I'm not liking this. You need to keep an eye on the money and make sure he isn't hiding it. Personal experience, here. Mine did it with an account that she had forgotten I was part of (I became co-owner right after marriage)...I suspected something was up when she started complaining about not having money, so I accessed the account and there it was. Since I am co-owner, all alerts I set on it go to my email alone...so I set everything to see money added/taken out, etc. And gave it all to my lawyer. Good times indeed.
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I've been feeling ok the last few days. But I'm slipping back down again just from seeing him undress. I miss him
Of course you do, and no one would fault you for it. Time, the enemy and friend of us all.
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
