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[Hazy]

I have no idea what happen today. WAH texted early this morning to call him. I saw the message but didn't call him right away. He called me TWO MINUTES after me seeing the message. I answered in a peppy voice “good morning” I could tell he was a little surprised by the way I answered. We hadn't texted or called each other all weekend. he responded in a peppy tone “why didn't you call me back” I told him I was getting some morning duties out of the way so I wouldn't be interrupted when I called him. He became so angry. He said “you couldn't just call me back! How do you know it wasn't important?” Then he said never mind and went on with the conversation. I was talking upbeat and he mistook it for me being a smart ass. (I guess I wasn't sounding normal. Which I need to work on.) He said he was going to let me go he just wanted to find out some deatails concerning kids. He was so irritated with me at this point for absolutely no reason. I I told him I had just woken up a few minutes before he called. He said I wasn't telling the truth. We hung up after discussing details.

I called him back (pursuing behavior, I know) trying to smooth things over by asking about his mom. He answered very nasty and I asked what was wrong. He said “nothing what do you want I want to go” so I said bye and we hung up. An hour later he called and warned me about the weather and about d going over to his place for the next few days. He offered to take other d back to school so I wouldn't drive in bad weather. I told him I would take her and it was fine. He called me silly.

I dropped d off to him when we got back from trip. He was short and still irritated with me. I was the last person he wanted to be around. I didn't stay but two minutes but those two minutes were so stressful.

About ten minutes later he sent me a text asking for me to send him some pictures of work done at the house. His text said “I know it's none of my business anymore but could you send me two pictures of the yard, I'm just curious” I did, he asked a few questions and that was the last contact for the night.

Im trying to detach. But it's so hard.